A Holistic Approach to Healing

INTRODUCTION

Domestic abuse has far-reaching consequences, not only for the individuals directly involved but also for the entire family unit. Research shows that domestic abuse can severely impact relationships, creating emotional distance, mistrust, and heightened anxiety among family members. At NIDAS, we understand the profound effects of domestic abuse on families and are committed to providing holistic support that addresses the needs of everyone involved, even when the initial referral is focused on the children.

This case study highlights the journey of Laura and James, two children referred to NIDAS for support following their exposure to domestic abuse. While the referral was initially for the children, NIDAS recognised the importance of supporting the entire family to foster healing and rebuild relationships. Through a combination of individual and family-focused interventions, we provided a safe space for Laura, James, and their mother to process their experiences, develop coping strategies, and strengthen their bonds as a family.

*Please note: names have been changed to protect client identities

Sessions focused on:

• Understanding emotions
• Anger management
• Coping with worries
• Safety planning
• Relaxation

ENGAGEMENT AND SUPPORT

Understanding Emotions

Laura and James’ sessions began with a focus on understanding and expressing their emotions. For Laura, this meant exploring her anxieties, particularly around contact with her father. She was given a feelings journal to help her articulate her emotions, which she used both in sessions and at school. This tool not only helped Laura express herself but also built her confidence in sharing her feelings with her support network.

James, on the other hand, struggled with feelings of being unloved and unrecognised within his family. His sessions provided a safe space to explore these emotions, helping him understand his relationships and his hopes for the future. Through these discussions, James began to build confidence in himself and in his ability to communicate his feelings.

 

Anger Management and Coping With Worries

Both children were supported in developing coping strategies for managing anger and worries. Laura’s sessions focused on identifying triggers for her anxiety and finding practical ways to cope at home and school. Safety planning was also introduced, helping Laura identify trusted individuals she could turn to when she felt overwhelmed.

For James, sessions addressed his challenging behavior at home, which stemmed from his struggles with feeling loved and cared for. By exploring these feelings in a supportive environment, James began to develop healthier ways to express himself and manage his emotions.

 

Safety Planning and Relaxation

Safety planning was a key component of the support provided to Laura and James. This involved helping them identify safe spaces and trusted adults they could turn to in times of distress. Additionally, relaxation techniques were introduced to help both children manage their anxiety and feel more secure in their daily lives.

 

Support For Mum

Recognising the importance of supporting the entire family, NIDAS allocated a family support worker to Mum. This provided her with a safe space to process the impact of domestic abuse on herself and her children. Through one-to-one sessions, Mum gained a deeper understanding of how to support her children and rebuild her relationship with them. Family sessions were also held, offering a space for open communication, boundary-setting, and strengthening family bonds.

 

For Mum And The Family

• Developed coping skills for managing anger and worries.
• Explored and addressed challenging behaviour at home.
• Rebuilt communication skills and strengthened relationships with the children.
• Gained a better understanding of boundaries and safety planning for herself and her children.

For Laura And James

• Built confidence in expressing their feelings and seeking help.
• Strengthened family bonds and developed coping skills.
• Felt safer and more secure in their daily lives.

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